Happiness is a Choice
Why is it so hard to be happy for yourself if you have the ability to create it for yourself? Happiness is influenced from the inside – from yourself. In times of crisis or trials or even in the midst of problems, we’ve got to see the bright side and stay away from what makes…
Forgiving Yourself
Forgiving is one of the most difficult thing to do. We all look back at our past failures at some point in our present and maybe in the future. I think it’s hard to forgive others but it’s harder or even hardest to forgive yourself. We set our own standards and self-expectations. Higher to reach…
Secrets of Absorbing Criticism
Most Filipinos are very opinionated. We were raised up to voice out what we think, feel and literally everything. Sensible or not, we still enjoy sharing our solid ideas to the point where criticism and analysis is already a habit. I am aware that every after fight of PacMan, we instantly become boxing analysts. After…
What to do with Annoying Tricycle Drivers
I learned a lot from tricycle drivers here in City of San Fernando. In my trip to pick up my kids from school, I was cut by a private tricycle and the driver and passenger were laughing about their action, they were looking back to provoke me. I’m annoyed and heart beats faster than normal.…
Why Support Group is Essential
Strong people need to build a durable support that originate in family, friends or sometimes even strangers. In a relationship, if you are not at peace with your partner, the best moral support you can get will be from trusted friends and of course your immediate family. Your wife or husband or partner can be…
Power of Negative Overthinking
Overthinking will not make you genius. If you think too much and look on negative side, you have a real problem. Looking around and you see all the imperfect and wrong things? Friend, you better change your perspective – you are sick. Always see the good side. The moment you notice some negative and then…
Sweet Disturbance
Early morning, I had my task list ready and to do list. Suddenly, changes in my schedule and arranging task list forced me to adjust. I disturbed myself and wasn’t able to focus more. The result? Catching up and regaining my concentration to do what needs to be finished. Working at home is interesting. Disturbance…
Time for Extra Activities
Make time for extra activities any stretch of the day. Dedicate some extra hours for your hobby, extra-curricular activities, volunteer work or random tasks. An hour or 2 will be used to refuel your soul from the stress and don’t deprive yourself from it. Setting up some time for extra activities will benefit your body,…
Controlling Displeasure
We live in an unfair world and that’s reality. There is no doubt a lot of people are cruel no complete control over them. It’s frustrating and draining our positive energy. Instead of living a comfortable life, we are displeased with a persons or situations. There is no reason to be hopeless but I know…
Simple Perks of Being Kind to Vendors
I wrote about respect from the last post and this time I’m going to share about kindness. Being kind is showing compassion and sincerity. Being kind is one key ingredient in living a positive life. Kindness is defined: the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. Kindness has the power to touch lives. Around 5:40pm,…