7 Ways to Stop Trying to Control People
Controlling other people is a waste of time. The power to control people is addictive and obsessive. Controlling others will start from a simple desire to become a mini god. We fall into a trap to control everything and everyone around us. From the way others think, talk, move – sometimes we want to be…
Time with kids
Weekends with your family is rewarding specially for working parents. Last Saturday night, I made a quick (abrupt) decision to go out and swim in a local resort. Of course, kids were excited and made them sleep early. I checked on my inbox to see urgent tasks and so far, the important tasks where marked…
When wrong timing is right timing
I was prompted about timing; good timing I guess. Timing according to google is the choice, judgement, or control of when something should be done. We all need patience when we talk about time. Right timing is right moment. Time is gold and every tick counts and must not be wasted. Right timing is essential.…
What is Love
Three things will last forever–faith, hope, and love–and the greatest of these is love. FHL. One of my favorite verse in the bible. Most of us will observe today February 14 as Valentine’s Day but to some it’s just a regular day – myself included. Allow me to share my thoughts about love. Every day…
What we need to know about Negas
We live in a place where negative and positive minded people exist. Optimist, pessimist, active, passive whatever you call it God designed it that way. Negative people or I’ll call them “nega or Negas” exists with a purpose. Trust me, it will bring out the best in all of us. Negas will always think of…
When Actions Speak Louder than Words
I observed that people learn better from what they see than what they hear. Children at school will pick up lessons faster if teachers use visual aids and demonstrations. Kids at home will absorb wisdom from their parents or guardians from what they see. Church members believes their pastor by looking at his lifestyle and…
Money and Wealth
Money is not everything but certainly its everyone’s requirement. I heard days ago, about a man winning the lottery for at least 100 million. Wow! That’s a dream come true for him and that’s awesome. Money can be both a curse and a blessing. Wealth according to google is defined as an abundance of valuable…
Happiness is a Choice
Why is it so hard to be happy for yourself if you have the ability to create it for yourself? Happiness is influenced from the inside – from yourself. In times of crisis or trials or even in the midst of problems, we’ve got to see the bright side and stay away from what makes…
Forgiving Yourself
Forgiving is one of the most difficult thing to do. We all look back at our past failures at some point in our present and maybe in the future. I think it’s hard to forgive others but it’s harder or even hardest to forgive yourself. We set our own standards and self-expectations. Higher to reach…
Secrets of Absorbing Criticism
Most Filipinos are very opinionated. We were raised up to voice out what we think, feel and literally everything. Sensible or not, we still enjoy sharing our solid ideas to the point where criticism and analysis is already a habit. I am aware that every after fight of PacMan, we instantly become boxing analysts. After…